Theatre Etiquette for First-Timers
Live theatre has a special atmosphere that cannot be replicated on a screen. Because performers and audience share the same space, small behaviours can affect everyone. A few simple guidelines will help you feel at ease and ensure that you and those around you enjoy the show.
Before you go
Book tickets through the theatre or an official seller. Check the start time and the running length, including any interval. Arrive early, ideally thirty minutes before curtain up, to find your seat, use facilities and read the programme. Many theatres do not admit latecomers until a suitable break, or may seat them at the back.
What to wear
Dress codes are rarely strict. Many people wear comfortable smart-casual clothes, and some like to dress up for a special evening. Choose something you can sit in comfortably for a couple of hours, and consider layering, as theatres can be warm or cool.
Arriving and finding your seat
Show your ticket at the door and ask staff if you need help. Be considerate when moving along a row: say excuse me, face the seated people and move quickly. If you need to leave early for health reasons, choose an aisle seat if possible.
Phones and devices
Turn your phone completely off, not only to silent, since buzzing and glowing screens are distracting. Taking photographs or recordings during the performance is generally prohibited. Some theatres provide places to store devices or notices about when photos are allowed, such as at the curtain call.
Eating and drinking
Rules about food vary. Many theatres allow drinks from the bar in the auditorium, while others restrict them. Avoid noisy wrappers and strongly scented food. Consider taking a break at the interval for refreshments.
During the performance
Stay quiet and still where you can. Whispering, humming along or commenting can disturb both performers and fellow guests. If you need to cough, try to do so during a loud moment or in your sleeve. If you must leave, do so discreetly and re-enter at a suitable pause.
Reacting appropriately
Laughter, gasps and applause are welcome signs of engagement. In comedies and musicals, the audience’s reactions are part of the experience. At serious moments, silence may be expected. If you are unsure, take your cue from the rest of the audience.
Applause
Clapping at the end of a number in a musical, or at the end of an act, is customary. At the end of the performance, applause during the curtain call shows appreciation. In some forms such as opera or ballet, audiences may applaud at particular moments, and watching others helps you learn the conventions. Standing ovations are a personal choice.
The interval
Use the break to stretch, queue for the bathroom early and discuss what you have seen. Return to your seat promptly when the bell rings.
Accessibility
Many theatres offer features such as step-free access, hearing loops, audio description and relaxed performances designed for people who may need a more flexible environment. Check the venue’s website or call the box office when booking. Respect those who use these services.
Children at the theatre
Check age recommendations and consider your child’s ability to sit through the performance. Family-friendly shows may be better for first experiences. Explain expectations beforehand.
Enjoy yourself
Etiquette exists to help everyone enjoy the experience. Once you know the basics, you can relax and let yourself be absorbed by the story unfolding in front of you.